Read an interesting article on Paulo's blog... sharing for benefit of all...
I realised very early on that, for me, traveling was the best way of
 learning. I still have a pilgrim soul, and I thought that I would use 
this blog to pass on some of the lessons I have learned, in the hope 
that they might prove useful to other pilgrims like me. 
1. Avoid museums. This might seem to be 
absurd advice, but let’s just think about it a little: if you are in a 
foreign city, isn’t it far more interesting to go in search of the 
present than of the past? It’s just that people feel obliged to go to 
museums because they learned as children that travelling was about 
seeking out that kind of culture. Obviously museums are important, but 
they require time and objectivity – you need to know what you want to 
see there, otherwise you will leave with a sense of having seen a few 
really fundamental things, except that you can’t remember what they 
were.
2. Hang out in bars. Bars are the places 
where life in the city reveals itself, not in museums. By bars I don’t 
mean nightclubs, but the places where ordinary people go, have a drink, 
ponder the weather, and are always ready for a chat. Buy a newspaper and
 enjoy the ebb and flow of people. If someone strikes up a conversation,
 however silly, join in: you cannot judge the beauty of a particular 
path just by looking at the gate.
3. Be open. The best tour guide is someone 
who lives in the place, knows everything about it, is proud of his or 
her city, but does not work for any agency. Go out into the street, 
choose the person you want to talk to, and ask them something (Where is 
the cathedral? Where is the post office?). If nothing comes of it, try 
someone else – I guarantee that at the end of the day you will have 
found yourself an excellent companion.
4. Try to travel alone or – if you are married – with your spouse.
 It will be harder work, no one will be there taking care of you, but 
only in this way can you truly leave your own country behind. Traveling 
with a group is a way of being in a foreign country while speaking your 
mother tongue, doing whatever the leader of the flock tells you to do, 
and taking more interest in group gossip than in the place you are 
visiting.
5. Don’t compare. Don’t compare anything – 
prices, standards of hygiene, quality of life, means of transport, 
nothing! You are not traveling in order to prove that you have a better 
life than other people – your aim is to find out how other people live, 
what they can teach you, how they deal with reality and with the 
extraordinary.
6. Understand that everyone understands you.
 Even if you don’t speak the language, don’t be afraid: I’ve been in 
lots of places where I could not communicate with words at all, and I 
always found support, guidance, useful advice, and even girlfriends. 
Some people think that if they travel alone, they will set off down the 
street and be lost for ever. Just make sure you have the hotel card in 
your pocket and – if the worst comes to the worst – flag down a taxi and
 show the card to the driver.
7. Don’t buy too much. Spend your money on 
things you won’t need to carry: tickets to a good play, restaurants, 
trips. Nowadays, with the global economy and the Internet, you can buy 
anything you want without having to pay excess baggage.
8. Don’t try to see the world in a month. 
It is far better to stay in a city for four or five days than to visit 
five cities in a week. A city is like a capricious woman: she takes time
 to be seduced and to reveal herself completely.
9. A journey is an adventure. Henry Miller 
used to say that it is far more important to discover a church that no 
one else has ever heard of than to go to Rome and feel obliged to visit 
the Sistine Chapel with two hundred thousand other tourists bellowing in
 your ear. By all means go to the Sistine Chapel, but wander the streets
 too, explore alleyways, experience the freedom of looking for something
 – quite what you don’t know – but which, if you find it, will – you can
 be sure – change your life.
- author is Paulo Coelho, a renowned author and motivator. Original Blog link